Always A Sister, Never A Friend

It sucks not being good enough. I guess it’s more frustrating than sucky. Time and time again I hear or see you complain about having no friends. Over and over and over. No one can relate to you, no one wants to hang out with you, no one has the same interests, no one likes this or no one likes that, ect.

Except me. I’m always available, always want to hang out, always here to listen. I’m open minded, my opinions can be changed with the proper explanation, I’ll always give you the truth even if it hurts your heart. I’m loyal, present, and hilarious. But I’m not good enough.

It’s tiring always trying and it’s tiring always seeing your “I have no friends” posts when you’re being just as selective as those you complain about. We all want friends, we all want someone out of our family circle to connect with, bond with; I get it. But don’t push away those that care just because you can. Because they’ll always be there when no one else is. Sometimes family is all your going to get.

Believe it or not, I too know what it’s like to have no friends and I know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of “maybe another time” over and over and over. It’s annoying and eventually you’ll stop trying. What’s more important? Building your social circle and counting on no one or accepting the people already in your corner knowing that they aren’t budging no matter how much you push away?

Life’s not fair and people suck but at least you have a handful of really awesome people that “get” you more than you’ll ever know.

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